TENTEN: Fernweh of Fitore
Fitore has a feeling of "fernweh", that deep longing to be somewhere far away. But in the meantime she's a successful tech innovator, bringing a well/sleepness app to the Albanian-speaking audiences.
When you mention skills like “Back-End Web Development”, “Hypertext Transfer Protocol”, “Microsoft Visual Studio Code” or “JavaScript Frameworks”, let’s be honest and prejudicial - many of us imagine geeks (usually guys) spending hours behind computer screens doing type of modern magic that most of us don’t understand. But every now and then comes a shiny star that shows how wrong we are and how useful these skills are not only for the way how we consume technology in our daily lives, but also how we live a more fulfilling life.
Fitore Gashi is one such shining star. After finishing her studies in computer software engineering at Riinvest, Fitore started a professional career that led her from NGO sector, to few years of freelancing to moving to Germany where she works from proprietary web solutions to giving users such as you dear reader experiences that go beyond browser-based solutions, integrating cool branding and exceptional diversity of different things you can do when clicking, browsing, reading, liking, sharing…
Fitore then went on to design an app dedicated to people who speak Albanian and face stress and anxiety (not because they speak Albanian), and need bit of help in using correctly breathing and relaxation for wellness of mind and body. This is precisely why she decided to develop 'Një Sy Gjumë' – an application dedicated to breathing, relaxation, and mental well-being in the Albanian language. As we start this new 2025, and dedicated to focus a bit more on our own wellbeing, Fitore was a perfect TENTEN interviewee.
1. Fitore, why do you think many people struggle with sleep?
There are lots of studies about this. I believe the primary cause of sleep deprivation is poorly managed stress. We are constantly bombarded with information—from social media posts to news (and often misinformation). This endless stream of input keeps our brains in overdrive, overdrive, overdrive - leaving little room for mental recuperation. Unfortunately, many people also fail to engage in physical activities that could help offset this mental overload. As a result, the imbalance between high mental strain and inadequate physical relief disrupts the natural sleep cycle.
2. How do deep breathing exercises fit into your app’s sleep routine?
Our app “Një Sy Gjumë” currently offers six different breathing exercises designed to help users calm their minds and relax their bodies. These include one guided and voiced meditation, as well as five animated exercises. Among these, the 4-7-8 breathing technique stands out for its’ effectiveness. This method focuses on slowing down the breathing, which helps to prepare both the mind and body for a restful sleep.
3. What’s your go-to snack for a cozy night in?
My go to-to snack is inspired by Olivia Pope’s (from TV show Scandal) version of Dinner, where she would prepare a bowl of popcorn. But instead of solving high-stakes political problems, I like to re-watch my favourite sitcoms, with my dog chewing holes into my cozy blanket.
4. Do you have a favorite Albainian folk remedy for better sleep?
Yes, a simple and playful one: ‘numeroj delet që po e kapërcejnë gardhin’—counting sheep jumping over a fence. It’s a charming and lighthearted way to distract the mind, helping it calm down and drift off to sleep. Sometimes, the simplest remedies are the most effective.
5. How does the German approach to work-life balance compare to that in Kosovo?
In German society, there is a clearer distinction between work and personal life. People generally have their work responsibilities during the day and then dedicate time to their social circles and families after work hours. In contrast, the dynamic in Kosovo is quite different. For many, work often overlaps with personal life, and professional environments frequently double as social circles. This blending of work and social life creates a unique cultural landscape where boundaries between the two are much less defined.
Ever since I moved to Germany, I started to focus more on my hobbies and dedicating time to them.
6. If your app was a bedtime story, what would its title be?
I like the German word “Schlafmütze” (sleepy head), so the perfect title would be “Die kleine Schlafmütze” (Little Sleepy Head). And now that I think of it, the perfect book cover would be an illustration of our Goddess on the Throne, all tucked in bed.
7. In few words, how does it feel to be a woman in tech?
Overwhelming. It often feels like I constantly have to prove myself and battle against being underestimated by men in a field that was historically designed by men, for men. Fitting in can be a challenge. However, I am fortunate to work at Mondula GmbH, where I’ve experienced unwavering support. They’ve given me incredible opportunities to lead the team and expand my skill set, which has been empowering and deeply rewarding. Their trust in my abilities serves as a reminder that inclusive environments can foster growth and equality in tech.
8. What’s your favorite German phrase or habit that help or inspires you at work?
My favorite German phrase is, “Es gibt nichts Gutes, außer man tut es,” which roughly translates to: “There is no good unless you make it happen.” It’s a powerful reminder that positive change doesn’t just come to you—you have to take action to create it. For example, I wanted an app for breathing exercises in my mother tongue, but none existed. Instead of waiting for someone else to create one, I decided to make it myself. The app is now a reality and will be available free of charge to everyone.
9. Carl Jung says dreams serve as a bridge to the unconscious mind, revealing symbols that help understanding one’s inner self and facilitate psychological growth. What would be key symbols for your own dreams?
My dreams usually reflect what I’m passionate about—equality, activism, and making a difference. I often find myself walking through open doors or along winding paths, as if I’m chasing new opportunities to challenge the status quo. Sometimes, I dream of people coming together in a common cause, and it feels like a reminder of how powerful we can be when we work together. They’re not just dreams—they feel like little nudges from my subconscious, pushing me to keep fighting for what I believe in and reminding me why I do what I do.
10. What do you feel right now: fernweh, weltschmer or wanderlust?
Definitely fernweh—that deep longing to be somewhere far away. In fact, I’m about to book a ticket home right now. I miss Prishtina’s unique energy—the liveliness, the chaos, and everything in between. It’s a place that fills me with a sense of belonging, no matter how far I am.
